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Message by: Ammar Ali Ayub on November 09 2009 at 10:51 AM
Country: Pakistan Joined: November 09 2009 Total Posts: 1

I am Ammar Ali, Age 15, Student of 10th class. I have joined an academy for studies. My class fellow in my school also wants to join the academy bit there in none in his area. He wish to join mine, and my academy is far away from his home, therefore he wants to come at my home, wait and then leave for academy along me when its time. Currently I am going to academy with my sir, who lives next door to me, and I also wish to take my class mate along with sir.
I discussed this with my parents, and then what they did was, they shouted on me. They are saying that "His (My friend's) family should care for him, not you." Actually they are trying to say that he shouldn't go along with my sir, or else sir will think his car to be a taxi. But my point of view is that as he is in need so i must help him. Maybe in later life I will need the help from him.
Guys, I am being supressed between my parents.
Please help!!
What should I do...
Obey my parents (even i know they are doing wrong as they are trying to take a sympathy of love me)
OR...,,
What???
Please Tell

Message by: ahmed hassan on November 31 2009 at 4:41 AM
Country: Bahrain Joined: November 31 2009 Total Posts: 1

o ' my dear ammar

i am here for the first time and first post in this site <<also , my english not very well, so accept my normal words >>..

in my modest opinion , i think that you have to tell (sir) about the matter and explain to him about what your father and mother thougt about the transport with him and how it can not be like a taxi work . then , tell him (sir) to go to your parents to talk with them ..

hopefully it will be good . always think about the mercy of allah, you will not back with out any thing..

your brother >> ahmed hassan
and .. what was to god certainly grow

Message by: Salma Begum on November 16 2009 at 9:08 PM
Country: India Joined: November 16 2009 Total Posts: 2

As Salam Alaikum
Ammar you are doing the good work helping your friend.But see dear your sir is helping you.You should not take advantage of that.Before asking him how could take your friend along with you in your sir car.Iam not saying that you are wrong.But just think on it.Disscuss this matter with your sir.If he agrees then its fine.Ok
Take Care
Allah Hafiz

Message by: Ridwanullah Ibraheem on November 20 2009 at 1:51 AM
Country: Nigeria Joined: August 11 2009 Total Posts: 6

Asalamun Alaekum, Brother Ammar Ali.. As said in the Holy Quran in surah Israi verses 23 to 24,pls try to read it,cos Allah S.W.T said obey ur parent... so try to accept ur parent request....may Allah be with us....

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